Archive - Know Thy Relationships

Find the golden nugget. What your crushes show you about the one who’s endgame

A guide to isolate what you really want in your partner: feat. my 2-4 crushes from september.

Oct 1 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

September 2026

research deep dive: EMDR, the therapy you can’t outsmart

I used to do EMDR on myself (with buzzers from the internet!) Here’s what the literature actually says about this increasingly popular therapy type

Sep 24 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

And what about you? When do you get to be happy?

Conrad Fisher from The Summer I Turned Pretty, and codependency

Sep 18 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

Preview My BOOK!!! EXCLUSIVE Sneak Peak!

Are You Codependent, or Just Deeply Caring? How to Recover When You Said Yes but Meant No- the (very long) teaser!!

Sep 3 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

August 2026

I'm a pyschologist, and I don't promote therapy. Should you? Here's the evidence... for CBT!

Therapy Research Deep Dive 1: for CBT

Aug 31 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

Do your relationships make or break you?

Yes, they have that power.

Aug 20 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

We broke up last week. We never kissed, but it was the deepest relationship I've ever had.

I hope the gratitude in my heart is clear from this article.

Aug 12 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

A gift for you, because I'm the Leo birthday girl and we ❤️ GIVING to the people we LOVE.

One lucky birthday subscriber will get their annual or founding subscription refunded!

Aug 12 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

The dance of masculine and feminine

It’s no secret that as men and women we work with masculine and feminine energies.

Aug 10 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

Your dream relationship isn't about 'knowing who's right for you'

It's actually a lot easier than that?

Aug 6 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

I have so much to say about relationships and don't know how to say it the 'right way'

On starting 'Know Thy Relationships', aka, the publication that would've saved me more than $100,000 and at least 4 failed relationships

Aug 2 • Dr. Jackie 🪷

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